I have been searching trying to find out what has been going on, I grew up with an extremely narcissistic mother, however I have found a video on covert narcissists, worsening with age.

This seemed more fitting, along with the gaslighting I have had for 20+ years, however I also cannot ignore the dark spiritual problems.

I have added another YouTube video on this subject ( not the one on coverts worsening with age ), as I really do not know what else to call this, nor at this time its reference in the Holy Bible.

My hope that it may help someone else living with this type of person, and the fears that they try and force upon you, the domination and control of another person, as these types of people just seem to be void of anything/everything but their own wants, paranoia, and living in some bizarre fantasy. And I cannot emphasise this strongly enough; devoid of LOVE.